#Ashamed – Who Should Be Ashamed?


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I am joining the #Ashamed Twitter chat tonight, 2-16-12, at 9PM EST. Honestly speaking, I am ashamed there is such a chat. I am ashamed this type of behavior is happening. I am ashamed that our children, the ones we are sworn to love and cherish, the ones we are sworn to protect, are subjected to the pain of living in such a cruel world.

The #Ashamed chat started as a result of the billboard shown above. It shows a little girl who is termed obese. The challenge is to remove these hurtful billboards. The goal is to fight obesity, not obese people.

I visited the strong4life.com website who I believe is responsible for the billboards. Short upbeat videos address the problem. I was impressed with Dr. Mark Wulkan of Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta who said the solution to the obesity epidemic is for everyone who comes in contact with the kids. That was the only realistic part. I’m sure they mean well.

Mamavation.com had the whole story along with a video showing what children experience every day at home and at school. Some of the key points I lifted from the Yale University video are:

People living with weight bias experience:

• Lonliness
• Depression
• Anxiety
• Low Self Esteem
• Poor Body Image
• Suicidal Thoughts and Behavior

What you can do:

• Be aware
• Educate yourself
• Avoid fat talk
• Intervene
• Include positive Role models
• Be sensitive
• Advocate weight tolerance

Learn more at www.yaleruddcenter.org They have so much great information.

Join the Twitter chat 2-16-12 at 9PM EST #Ashamed.

If you don’t have time for any of this, take time to watch the video. I found the most direct link to be at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxzejNE0RT8 The title is Weight Bias at Home and School. We could also retitle it to be Weight Bias at Home, School, Work and Social situations. Smile, we can solve this problem together.

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  1. Meredith Allison @RockTique says

    Great post Diane! I have been fuming over this campaign since it began. I joined in the chat a week or two ago (I’ve lost all concept of time having a active 4yr old around, ha) I will do my best to share my voice tonight (child permitting!) I suffered (and survived) a long battle with anorexia and my concern on this issue feels personal. And as for the word ‘fat’, I’ve avoided that word in my house like the plague. My son has been taught that it is a ‘mean & hurtful’ word… If only the world saw it that way!

  2. dianebrogan says

    HiMeredith. Thanks for sharing your story. I am glad you won your battle with anorexia and that you have a healthy 4yr old. I commend you for banning the word “fat” in your house. In the Weight Bias at Home and School video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxzejNE0RT8 at 17:19 in, there is a section “Avoid Fat-Talk” that tells how dangerous fat talk can be. Best to you and your family.

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